Anonymous asks, “I would like to ask the group how they deal with a son or grandson who is abusive to women, their girlfriends and wives, the ones who physically and verbally abuse women and bully them….
I have a grandson (he is 25 years old) who is an abuser and my dislike for him grows as time goes on… I can hardly be in the same room with him any more and now we don’t get along because he says I always take the women’s side and don’t see his side… one of these women is the mother to his son, my great grandson, and we have a good relationship. She has full custody and my grandson has lost his rights. My grandson and I fight because I continue to have a relationship with her and my great grandson who is four years old.
There is no history of this behavior in our family and he has never witnessed this as a child… and he was not abused in any manor as far as I know as a child either, he was adored and spoiled by all…”