“I’m curious, I could use some advice. I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years. The man is married, however, they have not been together for 10 years…
He fully supports her and their three adult children. He promised me he would divorce once the youngest graduated high school. That was two years ago.
I have been fully supporting him financially. He lives with me and claims he does not like my mattress so won’t sleep in my bed. I have replaced my bed twice letting him pick out the mattress. Still won’t sleep in my bed.
He won’t kiss and recently said he hates sex. Is in poor health, has no money, and is 100 pounds overweight. He has no energy, is disabled, and won’t take me out. He won’t walk the beach, won’t climb the mountain. Sloppy… Lazy… No romance.
Has lots of fun with his guy friends. Does nothing with my family. I do everything with his family. What is my attraction?” -Anonymous