Anonymous wants your opinion. “My adult son and daughter do not have the warm cozy relationship they had as children…
I would say mostly because my son is pretty judgmental as is his wife. And she isn’t real keen on being with my daughter. It makes family time a bit strained, yet I do want them to maintain a relationship.
Our daughter and son-in-law will be visiting from quite a distance away and I want to include our son and daughter-in-law who live closer to us in some of the activities, however do not want to spoil my daughter’s well-deserved vacation.
I am disturbed to see the distance between them as they were fairly close growing up. I know they are responsible for their relationship however I wonder do I have a role in this?”