Anonymous wants your advice:
“Married for 40 years. Stopped being intimate eight years ago due to menopause and all that comes with it. Husband is having difficulty raising to the occasion and me not caring to have any because it was never good in the past nor is it any better in the present.
Last time we attempted to be intimate I was told not to tell him what to do; though it was my body he was touching.
We do love and care for each other but the bedroom is out of the question. Can’t talk about because I will only get him upset and then will not be talked to for weeks”