Anonymous writes, “It all started some years back when my fiance’s family rejected me saying they had issues with my mom’s family… and for that reason their son couldn’t marry me and this brought serious issues. At the time I decided to walk away only to discover that I was pregnant…
I told my fiance’, and he accepted the fact that I was pregnant, but later told me to abort because his friends advised him. My sister advised me of the same, but only because our parents were deceased – but I couldn’t see myself doing such a thing because it’s against my belief. I left my sister’s house to a friend’s place who accepted me and eventually my ex-fiance’ decided to send me money to rent an apartment. After delivering my set of twins, a boy and a girl, everything changed and he hated me with passion.
I have been the only one fighting to take care of the children who will soon be four years old. I haven’t paid their school fees since before the lock down, and their father is somewhere enjoying himself with different women.
We beg to eat because I can’t work as there is nobody to take care of my children while I go to work. I have tried doing business with 20k a friend gave to me but the business collapsed. I am tired of begging before I feed my kids… My siblings have tried assisting in the little ways they can because none of us buoyant yet… I need advice on how I can help myself without affecting my kids. Secondly help / prayer for God to find a house and a job for me.”
“Good day to you all. I appreciate all for your contributions and I also appreciate those that mocked me… First of all, for those who asked me to state my location so that they could know how to advise me… I am a Nigerian. Here things are not done like the rest of the world because of bad government… I have tried many ways to get help from the government and the twins’ father, but nothing has worked. I don’t have other options other than to come here believing that my fellow women might help me.”