Anonymous is looking for advice, “I’m 60 and my husband is 57. We’ve been married for 14 years, second for both of us…
He has ED and we just stopped having sex about four years ago. In the past two years we have had sex three times and two of those times were in the past two weeks.
From time to time over the years I’ve caught him looking at porn, over the past couple of months he’s looking at more than porn, he’s looking at tasteful nude pics and saving them on his phone.
He suffers from anxiety and has terrible stress at his job. This past weekend he told me he loves me but doesn’t know if he’s still in love with me; I’m beside myself because he knows he’s hurting me.
I’m the main breadwinner and he literally cannot live on his own financially. I suffer from depression and anxiety (who doesn’t) and along with this pandemic this has exacerbated everything. I don’t know what to do.”