Texting Other Women

Anonymous needs advice. “I am deeply confused. My husband and I had been separated for awhile. When we reconciled I asked him three questions, when he answered, I knew in my heart he was lying. He kept hiding his phone…

One day I confronted him and laying my phone on the table I said, “you can look at anything on my phone.” He said the same, but when I said, “so if I look at your phone, there’s nothing on there you have to worry about?” He picked it up and put it back in his pocket.

I know I shouldn’t have but one day later, I had a chance to look at his phone and he had a text message from another woman from back in August but he still had it, an email from another woman and porn sites in his email.

I can’t leave. I don’t have anywhere to go and can’t afford to be on my own anyway. He otherwise treats me like a queen. Should I just look the other way, not knowing if these things were when we were separated? I don’t know what to do about the porn. He last opened the sites in January as far as I know. He still hides his phone, I just don’t know what to do.”

2 comments
  1. This is heart breaking, I’m so sorry. I’m currently going through something similar. I’m on disability, we have been together 15 years and 6 weeks ago he started talking to someone on the phone multiple times a day. I have confronted him also no luck. I feel broken. I now how you feel. Sending hugs 🤗

  2. I think you al re eady answered your question. You said you can’t leave. If you really felt the need to leave, you would find a way. When we split up, he wanted to see me fail, it only made me more determined than ever. It may be easier to stay, that may be what you mean.

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