Anonymous needs advice. “I am deeply confused. My husband and I had been separated for awhile. When we reconciled I asked him three questions, when he answered, I knew in my heart he was lying. He kept hiding his phone…
One day I confronted him and laying my phone on the table I said, “you can look at anything on my phone.” He said the same, but when I said, “so if I look at your phone, there’s nothing on there you have to worry about?” He picked it up and put it back in his pocket.
I know I shouldn’t have but one day later, I had a chance to look at his phone and he had a text message from another woman from back in August but he still had it, an email from another woman and porn sites in his email.
I can’t leave. I don’t have anywhere to go and can’t afford to be on my own anyway. He otherwise treats me like a queen. Should I just look the other way, not knowing if these things were when we were separated? I don’t know what to do about the porn. He last opened the sites in January as far as I know. He still hides his phone, I just don’t know what to do.”