Anonymous writes, “My husband doesn’t want to take responsibilities of his family and so I’m living with my daughter in a different city…
It’s not that we’re seperated but I miss the male support in times of problems. Recently my 31 year old son (who has a bad temper) got into one of his bad moods and broke things that were important and of use.
I’ve asked my son to come over and begin life again… he’s quite big enough to understand but is trying to follow his father (he and his father live together).
What will happen to him when I’m gone… his behaviour is giving him and me a bad reputation. How can he understand that life is full of adjustments? We cannot be violent to get anything.
Have you experienced a similar situation, and how did you handle it?”