Patt writes, “What would you do? My mother who is 88 years old, is trying to make a decision…
To stay in California, where one of her daughters lives, or move back to Wisconsin, where both her son and daughter and all her relatives are. She doesn’t like the cold of Wisconsin, but don’t think that would be a problem.
The one thing that mom worries about is that my sister would be mad and lay a big guilt trip on her. That is not fair to my mom. I think she should do what makes her happy, and she says she is happier in Wisconsin.
My sister seems too busy to have much time for her. Comes about twice a week to do a few things for her. If she was in Wisconsin she would be with my brother all the time.
I think she should do whatever makes her happy and to heck with everyone else.”